Learn more about Tony Endelman, Dr. Robert Glover, and this incredibly unique project. The Big Stick is available now!

Dr. Robert Glover is an author, a marriage & family therapist, a coach, an educator, a sought-after public speaker, and a seminal figure in men’s self-improvement.

Born just outside of Seattle, Washington, Dr. Glover has been dedicated to helping others transform their lives for 40 years.

Dr. Glover’s groundbreaking book, No More Mr. Nice Guy has changed the lives of countless men around the world.

His other work – including his online courses and his books Dating Essentials for Men and Dating Essentials for Men: FAQ have been just as impactful. Dr. Glover has been featured in The New York Times, The Seattle Times, The Huffington Post, The Guardian, Men’s Health, and numerous other publications. He currently lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.

Dr. Robert Glover

 Author of the groundbreaking book, No More Mr. Nice Guy!, Dr. Glover has been a therapist, coach, and educator for 40 years.

Tony Endelman is an author & blogger, a humorist, a certified transformational life coach, a certified happiness trainer, and one of Dr. Glover’s elite certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coaches.

Born and raised in Omaha, Nebraska, Tony graduated from the University of Wisconsin with a degree in communications. In his previous career, he worked in marketing & advertising. He has been a full-time coach, writer, and entrepreneur since 2017.

Tony is the founder of The Integrated Man Cave and Integrated Man University.

Tony has helped hundreds of men transform their lives and start living up to their fullest potential. In addition to the group coaching he provides through Integrated Man University, Tony offers personalized, one-on-one coaching. Tony has facilitated several workshops alongside Dr. Glover.

Tony’s unique brand of humorous, no-bullshit, thought-provoking self-help has been featured in The Huffington Post, YAHOO!, Thrive Global, Thought Catalog, The Good Men Project, Tiny Buddha, Lifehack, Mindvalley, and other publications. His website has been recognized as one of the top 100 personal development blogs.

Tony credits Dr. Glover with changing his life. He currently lives in New Orleans, Louisiana.

Tony Endelman

 Tony Endelman is an author, blogger, entrepreneur, certified transformational life coach, and one of Dr. Glover’s certified coaches.

While Dr. Robert Glover is best known for his bestselling book No More Mr. Nice Guy!, his other work is no less enlightening.

In 2019, Dr. Glover published Dating Essentials for Men, which gives men the tools they need to overcome self-limiting beliefs, develop better social skills, and interact more confidently and authentically with women. Dr. Glover is the founder of Total Personal Integration (TPI) University, which he created to “better help men and women put their intention into action.” TPI University is home to popular online classes including Positive Emotional Tension, All the Way in: Relationship Essentials for Men, The Ruminating Brain, and Nice Guys Don’t Finish Last, They Rot in Middle Management. Additionally, Dr. Glover has a vast library of podcast recordings, Q&A forums, articles, worksheets, and other resources for both men and women. 

The Big Stick covers all of it (and more)

While The Big Stick took many months to craft, it was actually decades in the making. It encapsulates well over 30 years of Dr. Glover’s groundbreaking work as a marriage and family therapist, a dating and relationship coach, an educator, a public speaker, and a seminal figure in men’s self-improvement.

To write The Big Stick, Dr. Glover gave Tony unprecedented access to his vault. As for why Tony agreed to write it; well, you’ll just have to figure that shit out on your own…


I’ve followed Dr. Glover’s work for years with great interest. No other author has left such a positive impact on the lives of insecure men, and few masculinity teachers are worthy of such respect as Glover. Enter Tony Endelman. To gain access to the choicest pieces of his sprawling body of work in one comprehensive resource is a gift. In these pages, men are shown not only a roadmap for recovering from insecurity and attachment issues but for living a more robust and fulfilling life. Read this book and save your life. Adam Lane Smith, author of Slaying Your Fear

In a time when men are facing significant challenges with culture and relationships, The Big Stick is an ideal roadmap. This book is a much-needed compendium of Dr. Glover’s no-nonsense strategies for self-mastery, and for living life on our terms. Do yourself a favor, and reap the benefits of Dr. Glover’s decades of experience helping men triumph. Dr. Shawn T. Smith, author of The Tactical Guide to Women and Gatekeeper

The Legend strikes again. It’s hard to hit literary gold twice in one lifetime, but Dr. Glover and Tony Endelman have somehow managed to do it with this latest book – The Big Stick. A potent collection of Dr. Glover’s teachings, the book walks the reader through a tremendous amount of wisdom, wit, and work. If you’re looking for a book that has the capacity to enhance almost every area of your life, while giving you practical tools and direct work you can do to implement – look no further. – Connor Beaton, author of Men’s Work.

I don’t know who we should be thanking more: Dr. Glover for 30+ years of life-changing wisdom or Tony Endelman for figuring out how to turn all of that wisdom into one easily digestible, thoughtfully organized, seriously engaging book that should be on every man’s nightstand. – Connell Barrett, author of Dating Sucks But You Don’t

No More Mr. Nice Guy was one of the resources that introduced me to men’s work over 15 years ago. It’s a classic that every man should read. Since then, I’ve had the pleasure to get to know Dr. Glover and the universe of relationship knowledge and depth he brings to the table. To have a talented writer like Tony Endelman package this body of knowledge up into a concise book is a real gift to the men’s community.  Again, one that every man should read. – GS Youngblood, author of The Masculine in Relationship


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